Summer Fun: Is School Out? By Mrs. Dorothy Barron

                         Summer Fun: Is School Out? By Mrs. Dorothy Barron 

Parents, I hope you have some fun and activities planned for your child/children during their summer vacation from school. Having been a parent, I  know that many Parents will insist on some academics over the summer and course work often depends on how well the child did or did not perform in school during the school year. Hopefully, you took time and held a school conference with your child’s teacher(s) prior to the school year ending. 

It is important that a child rests and relaxes the mind, but I also understand that many Parents prefer to have their children accomplish one or more of the following goals over the summer:

ü  RETAIN knowledge garnered over the year

ü  IMPROVE or work at skills the child did not master or perform well over the school year

ü  LEARN new skills

If a child or even an adult enjoys or has fun at what he or she does, it often  does not appear as work; The “pressure” factor decreases significantly and/or does not exist.  Since learning can be fun, I have for this purpose selected three websites and honed in on a specific feature of each site, as well as a physical site.  Check the sites out; you may be able to accomplish one or more of the aforementioned goals while having fun as you and/or your child learn.

You know what is best for your child; utilize the sites below to assist you and your child over the summer and/or bookmark for future use. Parents, sites you may want to view:  

o   The Free Dictionary: This is a fabulous site to assist in the areas of English and language. It offers educational and fun skills in so many different areas; spelling, language, English, learning new words; history, etc. The information is offered in such a manner that you (along with your child/ren) can pick and choose and structure the information to make learning fun. Website: http://www.thefreedictionary.com/

o   Education.com: Are you looking for activities that you do not have to search for extensively or create yourself? This site has an array of resources. For busy parents who do not have a lot of time to search and surf the Web, Education.com provides a regular newsletter with activities for each specific age group from pre-school through middle school. Website: http://www.education.com/

o   Khan Academy: If your child needs assistance with Math, Founder & CEO Salman Khan of Khan Academy makes Math look easy and non-threatening, regardless of the type of Math. Getting assistance from him in his short video tutorials is akin to sitting down with a friend or older brother who will patiently work with you until you achieve or master the learning objective – “you can do the Math.” Assistance is provided from basic Math equations to Calculus and beyond. Website: http://www.khanacademy.org/#browse

o   A Physical Site- The local library: Remember the excitement of reading 10 or more books in order to receive a Summer Reading Program Certificate from the local library. I carried on this tradition with our children. Summer break was about 10 weeks and therefore, one book per week could be read.  My husband and I insisted that our sons read at least ten books over the summer; however, I compromised with them and allowed our sons to choose their own books. Needless to say, many of those books they chose were below their reading levels and often consisted of very few pages. As young adult men, one son now is usually reading at least 2-3 different books (not easy reads) in conjunction or at the same time.

You and your child/ren have a good and fun summer; stay safe! 

Notes: 1.) Mrs. Dorothy Barron has listed the above websites and Public Library for informational purposes, only; she has not received any endorsements from the above websites or libraries.                                                                                         

2.) For access and/or use of materials at the aforementioned websites, please check the specific website’s terms/conditions.

3.) A special thank you to Mr. Patrick Barron for courtesy of and his permission to use his photographs (All Rights Reserved) for this blog post.  

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author & Founder

Parents Taking Charge in Education: http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-mail: barron.dorothy@yahoo.com 

                    

Two (2) Additional Factors that Can Affect a Child's Learning by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

Two (2) Additional Factors that Can Affect a Child’s Learning by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

Often when we address the issue of barriers that adversely affect and hinder or prevent children from learning, we omit two that will be addressed on today. I have paired these two factors because they transcend socio-economic, racial and national boundaries.

Children of Drug Users and Addicts

From the mid 70’s up through the early 90’s, the use of unlawful drugs and drug users escalated to the point that drug wars occurred. Much emphasis was place on the effects to society from a social and economic standpoint, but not really in terms of the lives of children who were born to drug user and/or addicts.

During the 1980s, sociologist and others opted for discussion and finally warned that at some point in time, society would have to deal with the issue. To my recollection, as a society, we did not or at least not adequately or in a manner as benefiting this issue. The issue was summarily dismissed because the African American race was especially singled out. Of course, as many did then and society has been fully apprised of the fact since then that unlawful drug use and addiction transcended socio-economic, racial and national boundaries; such adversely affected or effected the entire nation in one form or another.

If one does the math, what would be the peak years for first and second generation children of drug users and/or addicts; what affect(s) does such have on a child’s learning and depending on the affects and effects, how do schools handle both the issue and child?

Effects of Electromagnetic Fields, Frequencies and Certain Energies

Most people are not aware of the adverse effects of Electromagnetic fields, frequencies and certain energies on both the environment and human beings. Some electromagnetic energy is part of our natural environment and other parts, manmade. The electromagnetic fields have continued to escalate with man’s advent of manmade products which emit electromagnetic energy and wireless technology. According to some who have studied this field, it has been documented that the human body can be adversely affected physically, neurologically and psychologically, as well as cell structure manipulation. 

It is my understanding that the most common devices that can be most hazardous are overhead power lines, cell phones and computers with the young and elderly being most affected and impacted. From a medical standpoint, some are attributing any number of medical symptoms (such as dizziness, lack of concentration, memory loss, queasiness, nausea, headaches, inability to sleep, unexplained pain, hyper-activeness and even more serious conditions) and unexplained medical conditions to and as a result of the effects of electromagnetic fields and certain energy.

We all understand that technology and wireless communications have and apparently will continue to dominate the future. Simply be cautious, ask questions and as Parents, become well-informed and educated about those things which affect your child/ren and how?

Note: Should you desire to read information about Electromagnetic Fields, Frequencies and Energies, google the terms.

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author & Founder

Parents Taking Charge in Education

http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-Mail: barron.Dorothy@yahoo.com

Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, Limitations or Challenges Pt.2 of 2 by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, Limitations or Challenges Pt.2 of 2 by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

In today’s post, Part 2 of Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, Limitations or Challenges, ten tips are being offered to assist you with navigating and advocating on behalf of your child/ren in Education.

1.      Questions are often raised regarding educational evaluations. Two separate evaluations completed by separate entities are often the recommendation. Perhaps, the school (often free of charge) and one private evaluator or two private evaluators. It is advisable that the evaluations not be shared until both have been completed.

2.      Learn your rights as a parent of a child/ren with disabilities, limitations or challenges (some sources from which you can obtain this information is from your school, school system and online at the US Department of Education).

3.      You are to be a part of the committee that plans your child’s Individual Education Plan (IEP) and are to be notified of any change(s) to that plan.

4.      You can have certain information added and/or removed from your child’s school records

5.      Document, ask for copies of written reports and keep notes and records of your child’s education experiences.

6.      Hearings are available and can be conducted by non-school officials/personnel. You must make the request.

7.      By having knowledge of the proper procedure, you can obtain information from your child/ren’s records even when school officials say, “NO”.

8.      Inclusion; I do not know the present status as it applies to Parents and schools. What I do advise; become knowledgeable and well-informed about the Education process. Understand the pros and cons. As a Parent, you should play a major role in deciding what is in the best interest of your child. Full inclusion is not for every special needs child; what works for one child may be detrimental for another child.

9.      Attend local and state board of education meetings, as well as their Instruction Committee Meetings. Such provides an excellent way to discover the educational programs which the school system contemplates adding, cutting or modifying.

10.  You must have a support group. Get to know other parents, locate or form a Parent Group with those of similar concerns, goals and objectives; work together. Disability Advocacy groups abound, but most are in the information and lobbying business; most do not provide legal representation to individuals.

If change is to occur, Parents you must become knowledgeable and well-informed about the Education System and leaders in the quest for change in Education. You sometimes have tough or difficult choices to make. Finally, to those parents who exhibit untiring patience, fortitude and steadfastness as you attempt to meet the special needs of your special and unique child/ren, we commend, salute and encourage you to continue to keep the faith upon which many of you have come to depend.

Note: Tips reprinted from the March/April 1996 Newsletter by the Co-founder of the Organization, Parents Focused on Education Newsletter with minor revisions.

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Founder & Author

Parents Taking Charge in Education http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-mail: barron.dorothy@yahoo.com 

Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, Limitations or Challenges Pt.1 of 2 by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, Limitations or Challenges Pt.1 of 2 by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

As Co-founder of and when I served as Director of the Organization, Parents Focused on Education, many calls were received by our office from Parents of children with disabilities, limitations or challenges; many calls involved school issues. Sadly, many of the issues and problems in Education that parents experienced, shared and sought solutions for almost twenty years ago in this area are the same which many of today’s Parents face; little seems to have improved. 

This post, Parents of School Age Children with Disabilities, limitations or challenges and who attend school outside the home is a two-part series. Part 1 consists of general information and 3 Action Steps, along with the significance of each step and Part 2 offers ten tips to Parents of Children with disabilities, limitations or challenges, which that can assist you, the Parent, as you navigate and advocate on behalf of your child/ren in Education.

Some Parents (and others) strongly protest to having their children categorized or labeled as a child/ren with disabilities; they prefer other such terms as a child or children with limitations or challenges. We respect such and therefore use all three terms here.

While I cannot speak for what occurs in/at all schools, for most, provisions are both limiting and limited when it comes to what schools are able to provide for this sector of students in Education.

For Parents who have school age children with disabilities, limitation or challenges; may I be frank with you and for two reasons: 1) as many of you are already avid and persistent advocates for your very special and unique child (ren); you want solutions to cut through the Education chase or red tape and 2) I want to prevent you wasting excessive time and exhausting unnecessary efforts and energy as you attempt to have the education needs of your child/ren met in Education.

Please do not become discouraged, but from a realistic point, keep in mind that if a great number of our schools are having trouble accommodating and meeting the needs of mainstream students, what does such say about students who have special needs in Education?

Here are 3 action steps that you can consider immediately taking and the significance of each:

1. Visit your child’s school and tour the school and your child’s actual classroom(s).

Ÿ  Is your child’s class tucked away in some dismal, unsightly and unadorned setting, which bespeaks of out of sight, thus out of mind?

Ÿ  What is his/her daily school routine; does his/her class eat in the school’s cafeteria and attend school functions/activities (a limited form of inclusion) with the rest of the student body?

Ÿ  What students comprise your child’s classroom and how does such affect your child and other students within? Some Special Education classrooms are a combination of slow learners, those who have mental and/or physical disabilities, limitations or challenges, as well as students who have discipline and behavior problems. The significance: Visiting and interacting assists you with becoming an informed and knowledgeable Parent; thus the beginning or starting point of Parental Involvement in your child’s education and/or with your child’s school.

Talk to your Child’s Teacher

Ÿ  Meet your child’s Teacher(s) and School Principal. Schedule a conference(See Parents Taking Charge in Education Parental Mini-Guide Book- How to Hold A School Conference & addition, School Conference Tracker) with the teacher and academic team which oversees your child‘s Individual Education Plan (IEP).

Ÿ  Get the scope of the school’s capability in the area of providing for your child’s academic needs.

Ÿ  Go one step further; get name and contact information for the Special Education Director for the entire school system. The significance: You begin engaging with those with more or higher authority (See Parents Taking Charge in Education Parental Mini-Guide Book- Chain of Command: Who is in Charge) within the Education System and you can obtain resources and resource information that may not readily be available at your local school. Most importantly, with knowledge of who has specific authority and decision making powers, you do not waste excessive and valuable time, effort, energy and frustrations interacting with those who do not have the knowledge or decision making powers to assist you and your child/ren.

Document, Document and Document

Ÿ  Such cannot be over-emphasized. You must keep an on-going and in-depth record of your child’s education/school career (such is pertinent to all Parents).

Ÿ  Document, document, document! The significance: Documentation will withstand and assist you time and time again as you and your child navigate through and work to obtain the most positive learning and fulfilling education experience tailored for your child’s individual needs.

Note: A Parents Taking Charge in Education Mini-Guide Books Series #2 (announced June 2011) New Title: How do I Get Involved in My Child’s Education & School? By Mrs. Dorothy Barron

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author & Founder

Parents Taking Charge in Education at http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-mail: barron.Dorothy@yahoo.com

A Position of Influence and Great Importance by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

  A Position of Influence and Great Importance by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

“You can’t lead where you don’t go or teach what you don’t know” (Mrs. Dorothy Barron).

Parents, one of the most important and influential positions that you can hold in the arena of Education- School is President of your child’s Parent-School Association or Organization, commonly known as the PTA or PTO. Now don’t everyone jump up and go running down to your child’s school to assume the position. First, one has to be nominated and then elected to the office. Second, the PTA or PTO President’s position is one of leadership, great importance, responsibility and influence. Therefore, do not accept the position if you are not willing to prepare and lead. On the other hand, do not shy away from accepting the nomination and position (if elected), if you desire to make a difference in Education and your child’s school and willing to learn.

Parent-School Associations or Organizations are no longer, nor should they be solely concerned with fundraising. The face of Education has and continues to change. As the Parent-School Organization or Association President, you, officers and other Parents should be on the cutting edge, front-end, partners, sitting at the table and major decision makers as to what occurs in Education, with your school and children. Such entails becoming well-informed, knowledgeable and educated about the Education process. As PTA or PTO President of your child/ren’s school:

Ÿ  Are you prepared for the position or most importantly, are you willing to learn?

Ÿ  Do you understand your role as President and what the position entails?

Ÿ  How much time can you devote to your child’s Parent-School Organization, both inside and outside the school?

Ÿ  Is the Association or Organization’s Legislative Committee as important as your Membership and Fundraising Committees; have you and your officers planned and organized in advance of the school year; met with the school principal, etc., and etc?

Ÿ  Do you and other parents sit school committees?

Tip: PTA or PTO President, if your school PTA or PTO does not produce a newsletter, consider producing one and circulating it in an effort to get community involved with and informed about your school’s activities?

Why is President of your child’s Parent-School Association or Organization a position of influence and of great importance?

Ÿ   Being PTA or PTO President enables you to assist and work with all sectors both within and outside the school setting.

Ÿ  The PTA or PTO President, school principal and school staff can work together as Partners in Education.

Ÿ  You can become a major decision maker and assist with charting the direction for Education, your school and students.

Ÿ  You can assist and build relationships with Parents and garner their involvement.

Ÿ  You can build bridges to connect Parents, Schools and Community.

Ÿ  You can serve as Liaison between the school and businesses and/or community.

Ÿ  You can present Parental concerns at school board, community and public meetings.

The position of PTA or PTO President is one of influence and great importance. Being well-informed and educated about the Education process and involved with your child/ren’s school(s) can further expand your influence. Your and other Parents becoming well-informed, knowledgeable and educated about the Education process and your schools can alleviate some frustrations, helplessness and hopelessness, which many experience in and with their child/ren’s school(s) and Education and also assist you and others with becoming proactive as opposed to reactive.

Note: In June of 2011, Parents Taking Charge in Education will announce the Parental Mini-Guide Books Series #2. One of three titles: Leading Your Child’s Parent-School Organization or Association: Basic Qualities Needed for Effective Leadership by Mrs. Dorothy Barron. Mrs. Barron also coaches and conducts workshops to PTAs/PTOs.

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author and Founder of Parents Taking Charge in Education

http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-Mail: barron.Dorothy@yahoo.com

Ending the School Year by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

                        Ending the School Year by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

“The most important phase of a child’s life is childhood; for it is here that all other phases emanate” (Mrs. Dorothy Barron).

Parents, attending school conferences are an important way to be involved in your child’s Education. End of the year school conferences can benefit both you and your child. Do not underestimate the importance of and/or fail to attend or schedule the conference simply because it is the end of the school year. Some important reasons for attending end of the year school conferences:

Ÿ  You can meet with your child’s teachers to access your child’s academic progress over the school year and they can provide you with knowledge about your child’s academic strengths, weaknesses and other pertinent information.

Ÿ  You can utilize the conference assessment information to plan some summer activities to assist your child with retaining, building and reinforcing academic skills.

Ÿ  You can balance meaningful academic activities with activities your child enjoys (if different) to ensure that he/she relaxes from the rigors and stress of the school year, thus, preventing overload and burnt-out. Learning and fun can coincide. Please see that your child enjoys his/her summer vacation.

Ÿ  Educators can often advise you of sources and resources that are available to you and your child over the summer.

As the school year ends for some parents, it is “ramping” up for others. Do you have a child who will begin kindergarten at a new school in the fall?

Ÿ  Have a conference with your child’s pre-school teacher(s).

Ÿ  If applicable, make sure you have all the proper school documentation necessary for your child entering school in the Fall, as well as required vaccinations.

Ÿ  Depending on your interest and anticipated level of involvement in your child’s Education and/or with your child‘s school, may I recommend you visit the anticipated school in which your child will be attending in Fall and prior to the school ending for the school year (summer). Check out the school and request a copy of the student-parent handbook. Obtain the Parent-School Organization Leader’s (PTA/PTO President) contact information; you may want to call and introduce yourself as a new parent.

Are you a Parent-School Organization Leader (PTA/PTO)? Many of you will want to meet with school principals prior to school ending (some will meet with you and officers over the summer) and spend time over the summer meeting with your officers and planning the organization’s agenda for the following school year. If you wait until school resumes to plan the organization’s agenda for the school year, you will have waited too late.

This school year is coming to an end and many students will soon graduate; may I extend Congratulations to each student and his/her Parent(s) for having reached this milestone.

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author & Founder of Parents Taking Charge in Education

http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-mail: barron.Dorothy@yahoo.com

Refilling Your Pitchers & Recharging Your Batteries by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

         

    

Refilling Your Pitchers & Recharging Your Batteries by Mrs. Dorothy Barron

“It does not matter how large a problem one has; nature is much larger and has a way of allowing one to put things in proper perspective”(Mrs. Dorothy Barron).

Have you ever served others pouring from a pitcher? Pitcher this: you pour and pour from it, but when the liquid within is substantially reduced or the pitcher empties, it must be refilled in order to continue serving. How about battery operated devices? At some point in time those devices that “run” must recharge or they will fail to run at all and such is why we recharge battery operated products. Perhaps, you are asking, what does refilling pitchers and recharging batteries have in connection with a Blog about Parents and Parenting?

Parents, your bodies are equivalent to the aforementioned; you run here, there and everywhere; you give and give and give until many “run down” and/or there is nothing left (empty- complete exhaustion). Unless you set aside a little time for self on a regular basis in order to refill your energies and recharge your bodies, you will find that you no longer have anything of self left to give anyone else.

Parents, Spring has sprung; spend some time in and with nature. Go out and refill your pitchers or recharge your batteries by enjoying some of the simple pleasures of life- take a walk in the woods or along a walking trail; sit beside a body of water; visit a botanical garden; sit on the top of a mountain, take your lunch to the park or simply take a blanket outside, sit or lie on it and watch a bird soar or the sun set. These are some of the simple outdoor activities that provide some quiet time and allow you to reflect or meditate; such can enable you to refill your pitchers and recharge your batteries and thus, assist you with becoming a more relaxed person and a more productive parent. Another advantage of being out in Nature; because it is much larger than we, it can allow us to put our own problems, regardless of how large, in proper perspective.

Carving out time for self does not come easy with most Parents. Perhaps, such can be accomplished with a little organizing, prioritizing, putting things in proper perspective and making some adjustments; let me share an illustration which includes all four. I have always realized the importance of exercise; when the health spa in the community closed, my husband suggested we play tennis. My husband and I organized our schedules. After one of us dropped the kids off at school, we would go to or meet at the tennis court. If our schedules conflicted, we reorganized and played in the late afternoons. There were/are a number of advantages of being outside and in nature; but back to the illustration involving tennis. 

For a long time, I had trouble winning any games at tennis against my husband; he was extremely good at it and he served a “curve ball.” I would be all over the tennis court trying to determine the direction of the curve ball once it hit the court on my side. My having complained, whined and decried, “no fair” did not help me win any games; a proper perspective and an adjustment were needed. After constant observance, I finally realized that the key to the “curve ball dilemma” was to insure that the ball not land on my side of the tennis court; I had to return the ball while it was in mid-air. Having made that adjustment, enabled me to hold my own as his tennis opponent. I finally won some tennis matches against and while partnering with my (former) husband.

Parents, what are you waiting for? Refill your pitchers and recharge your batteries; make time for yourselves and learn to take life one step and one day at a time.

Note: Special thanks to Mr. Patrick Barron who has granted use of and permission of his photos in this blog. Retain within and do not use or copy outside this blog without written permission. 

Mrs. Dorothy Barron, Author & Founder

Parents Taking Charge in Education http://mrsdbarron.blogspot.com

E-mail: barron.Dorothy@yahoo.com